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    热心大妈当“红娘”

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    (高)(丽)(华)(正)(在)(了)(解)(一)(对)(青)(年)(男)(女)(的)(个)(人)(情)(况)(
      “520”以)(来)(,朔)(州)(矿)(区)(微)(信)(朋)(友)(圈)(里)(热)(传)(一)(则)(“家)(喻)(户)(晓)(的)(高)(奶)(奶)(”的)(微)(信)(。“红)(娘)(”高)(丽)(华)(,坚)(持)(60年)(为)(年)(轻)(人)(说)(媒)(,成)(就)(了)(40多)(对)(美)(好)(姻)(缘)(。
      5月)(22日)(,星)(期)(日)(,天)(气)(晴)(好)(,记)(者)(来)(到)(平)(朔)(生)(活)(区)(六)(区)(35号)(楼)(2单)(元)(一)(层)(西)(门)(高)(丽)(华)(老)(人)(家)(。因)(为)(“职)(业)(”关)(系)(,她)(的)(家)(门)(一)(直)(是)(开)(着)(的)(。轻)(敲)(几)(下)(门)(,从)(里)(屋)(走)(出)(一)(名)(满)(头)(银)(发)(的)(老)(太)(太)(,耳)(聪)(目)(明)(,说)(话)(利)(落)(。
      谈)(及)(当)(媒)(人)(的)(事)(,老)(人)(操)(着)(一)(口)(浓)(重)(的)(原)(平)(话)(一)(再)(说)(:“我)(做)(的)(都)(是)(些)(小)(事)(,为)(人)(民)(服)(务)(,应)(该)(的)(,不)(值)(得)(表)(扬)(。”
      没)(结)(婚)(时)(就)(给)(别)(人)(说)(媒)(
      1956年)(10月)(,18岁)(的)(高)(丽)(华)(参)(加)(工)(作)(,在)(大)(同)(市)(口)(泉)(供)(销)(社)(当)(售)(货)(员)(。上)(班)(没)(多)(久)(,她)(发)(现)(了)(一)(个)(“三)(多)(”问)(题)(,即)(口)(泉)(附)(近)(煤)(矿)(多)(、单)(身)(男)(矿)(工)(多)(、自)(己)(单)(位)(里)(姑)(娘)(们)(多)(。于)(是)(,她)(便)(开)(始)(琢)(磨)(这)(“三)(多)(”问)(题)(和)(解)(决)(办)(法)(。
      她)(凭)(着)(热)(心)(、吃)(苦)(、能)(说)(,开)(始)(尝)(试)(为)(周)(围)(的)(姐)(妹)(们)(介)(绍)(对)(象)(。在)(她)(的)(撮)(合)(下)(,3个)(姐)(妹)(找)(到)(了)(自)(己)(的)(另)(一)(半)(,而)(且)(都)(是)(矿)(区)(工)(人)(,人)(们)(慢)(慢)(对)(身)(边)(的)(这)(个)(小)(姑)(娘)(刮)(目)(相)(看)(:“小)(小)(年)(纪)(还)(能)(办)(大)(事)(……”
      1986年)(,高)(丽)(华)(随)(丈)(夫)(从)(大)(同)(矿)(务)(局)(工)(程)(六)(处)(来)(到)(平)(朔)(。平)(朔)(露)(天)(煤)(矿)(是)(我)(国)(改)(革)(开)(放)(的)(“试)(验)(田)(”。建)(矿)(初)(期)(,全)(国)(各)(地)(的)(煤)(矿)(专)(业)(技)(术)(人)(才)(先)(后)(不)(断)(涌)(来)(,职)(工)(家)(属)(队)(伍)(逐)(渐)(庞)(大)(起)(来)(。高)(丽)(华)(被)(安)(排)(在)(单)(身)(公)(寓)(当)(服)(务)(员)(,经)(常)(接)(触)(这)(些)(年)(轻)(职)(工)(,发)(现)(他)((她)()们)(因)(为)(上)(班)(忙)(,加)(上)(“三)(班)(倒)(”,连)(“谈)(婚)(论)(嫁)(”的)(时)(间)(都)(没)(有)(。乐)(于)(助)(人)(的)(高)(丽)(华)(又)(干)(起)(了)(说)(媒)(的)(“活)(儿)(”,她)(常)(常)(利)(用)(休)(息)(时)(间)(为)(年)(轻)(人)(牵)(线)(搭)(桥)(。
      自)(己)(家)(成)(了)(相)(亲)(场)(所)(
      一)(来)(二)(去)(,周)(围)(亲)(戚)(朋)(友)(找)(高)(丽)(华)(说)(媒)(的)(人)(就)(多)(了)(起)(来)(。由)(于)(经)(常)(上)(楼)(下)(楼)(、走)(东)(家)(串)(西)(家)(,高)(丽)(华)(落)(下)(了)(腿)(疼)(的)(毛)(病)(。为)(了)(方)(便)(,她)(专)(门)(搬)(到)(大)(女)(儿)(的)(底)(层)(楼)(房)(,就)(是)(现)(在)(这)(个)(家)(,既)(照)(顾)(了)(自)(己)(,也)(为)(年)(轻)(人)(说)(媒)(有)(个)(场)(地)(。
      高)(丽)(华)(家)(每)(天)(门)(庭)(若)(市)(,除)(了)(空)(闲)(来)(串)(门)(的)(街)(坊)(邻)(居)(,大)(多)(数)(是)(前)(来)(相)(亲)(的)(未)(婚)(男)(女)(。
      高)(丽)(华)(还)(不)(会)(用)(手)(机)(,家)(里)(唯)(一)(的)(通)(讯)(工)(具)(就)(是)(固)(定)(电)(话)(,每)(月)(电)(话)(费)(200多)(元)(。她)(说)(媒)(不)(图)(名)(谋)(利)(,只)(愿)(为)(年)(轻)(人)(架)(起)(一)(座)(桥)(。说)(着)(,她)(拉)(开)(抽)(屉)(,拿)(出)(了)(3个)(厚)(厚)(的)(笔)(记)(本)(,上)(面)(密)(密)(麻)(麻)(记)(录)(着)(每)(个)(来)(她)(家)(相)(亲)(的)(青)(年)(男)(女)(个)(人)(信)(息)(。
      听)(说)(记)(者)(采)(访)(高)(丽)(华)(老)(人)(,在)(25号)(楼)(居)(住)(的)(刘)(女)(士)(硬)(拉)(记)(者)(到)(她)(家)(看)(看)(。原)(来)(,儿)(子)(快)(三)(十)(岁)(了)(,还)(没)(有)(结)(婚)(,这)(让)(当)(妈)(的)(很)(着)(急)(。于)(是)(,她)(求)(到)(了)(高)(丽)(华)(门)(下)(。之)(后)(,高)(丽)(华)(介)(绍)(了)(朔)(城)(区)(小)(平)(易)(乡)(的)(一)(名)(农)(村)(姑)(娘)(。刘)(女)(士)(连)(连)(夸)(赞)(说)(:“这)(姑)(娘)(会)(操)(持)(家)(、会)(体)(贴)(人)(、人)(勤)(快)(、脑)(子)(灵)(,在)(六)(区)(租)(房)(开)(了)(个)(小)(超)(市)(。”
      不)(一)(会)(儿)(,就)(来)(到)(了)(刘)(女)(士)(儿)(媳)(小)(张)(开)(的)(超)(市)(。听)(着)(婆)(婆)(一)(个)(劲)(地)(夸)(她)(,小)(张)(边)(笑)(边)(为)(顾)(客)(结)(账)(。刘)(女)(士)(说)(:“为)(了)(给)(我)(儿)(子)(介)(绍)(对)(象)(,高)(大)(姐)(可)(没)(少)(破)(费)(和)(跑)(路)(。平)(朔)(生)(活)(区)(距)(小)(平)(易)(乡)(十)(多)(公)(里)(,每)(次)(高)(大)(姐)(都)(是)(打)(的)(往)(返)(,一)(次)(来)(回)(车)(费)(就)(得)(50元)(。儿)(子)(结)(了)(婚)(,我)(专)(门)(给)(她)(送)(路)(费)(,她)(一)(分)(钱)(没)(收)(。现)(在)(我)(家)(孙)(子)(都)(3岁)(了)(。遇)(上)(高)(大)(姐)(,是)(我)(上)(辈)(子)(烧)(了)(高)(香)(。”
      在)(朔)(州)(当)(媒)(人)(,有)(“媒)(八)(顿)(”一)(说)(,指)(的)(是)(媒)(人)(在)(说)(媒)(过)(程)(中)(,男)(女)(双)(方)(家)(要)(请)(媒)(人)(吃)(八)(顿)(饭)(,这)(桩)(婚)(事)(才)(能)(成)(功)(。但)(高)(丽)(华)(就)(不)(同)(了)(,她)(说)(媒)(最)(多)(吃)(两)(顿)(饭)(,订)(婚)(、结)(婚)(各)(一)(顿)(,从)(不)(给)(男)(女)(双)(方)(添)(麻)(烦)(,怕)(让)(人)(说)(三)(道)(四)(。每)(介)(绍)(成)(一)(对)(,有)(的)(实)(在)(过)(意)(不)(去)(时)(,她)(也)(只)(把)(喜)(糖)(留)(下)(,甭)(说)(挣)(钱)(还)(倒)(贴)(钱)(,为)(了)(祝)(贺)(一)(对)(新)(人)(,都)(要)(上)(份)(子)(钱)(,这)(些)(年)(,光)(份)(子)(钱)(粗)(略)(也)(有)(个)(大)(几)(万)(块)(了)(,而)(对)(于)(新)(人)(们)(给)(的)(红)(包)(,她)(都)(一)(律)(退)(回)(。
      白)(天)(因)(大)(多)(数)(工)(人)(上)(班)(,没)(有)(时)(间)(相)(亲)(,到)(了)(晚)(上)(,特)(别)(是)(双)(休)(日)(更)(是)(高)(峰)(期)(,高)(丽)(华)(家)(就)(像)(是)(赶)(集)(,不)(断)(有)(年)(轻)(男)(女)(陆)(续)(来)(到)(她)(家)(。为)(了)(这)(些)(相)(亲)(男)(女)(喝)(水)(方)(便)(,她)(专)(门)(购)(置)(了)(热)(水)(器)(和)(一)(次)(性)(水)(杯)(;有)(时)(到)(了)(饭)(点)(还)(留)(他)((她)()们)(吃)(饭)(。有)(时)(要)(晚)(上)(10点)(多)(,送)(走)(这)(些)(相)(亲)(男)(女)(,她)(才)(收)(拾)(屋)(子)(,准)(备)(休)(息)(。
      高)(丽)(华)(说)(:“一)(看)(到)(他)((她)()们)(走)(到)(一)(起)(,我)(心)(里)(比)(吃)(了)(拿)(了)(都)(高)(兴)(。”
      说)(媒)(还)(带)(出)(了)(“徒)(弟)(”
      就)(在)(要)(结)(束)(采)(访)(时)(,门)(铃)(响)(了)(。高)(丽)(华)(说)(:“一)(定)(是)(干)(女)(儿)(来)(了)(。她)(一)(天)(不)(来)(三)(遭)(来)(两)(遭)(,就)(怕)(我)(说)(媒)(忙)(不)(过)(来)(。”
      果)(然)(,门)(开)(处)(,正)(是)(她)(的)(干)(女)(儿)(杨)(宝)(华)(。“干)(娘)(,我)(给)(你)(又)(带)(了)(两)(个)(年)(轻)(人)(。”杨)(宝)(华)(的)(身)(后)(,一)(前)(一)(后)(跟)(着)(一)(男)(一)(女)(。
      高)(丽)(华)(高)(兴)(地)(赶)(紧)(招)(呼)(:“快)(进)(来)(,快)(进)(来)(。”
      一)(看)(来)(了)(“业)(务)(”,记)(者)(也)(不)(好)(再)(打)(扰)(。杨)(宝)(华)(送)(记)(者)(时)(说)(,她)(原)(来)(和)(高)(丽)(华)(同)(在)(单)(身)(公)(寓)(上)(班)(,被)(她)(助)(人)(为)(乐)(的)(精)(神)(所)(感)(染)(,也)(常)(常)(帮)(助)(别)(人)(。“她)(的)(大)(女)(儿)(也)(退)(休)(了)(,能)(够)(腾)(出)(手)(来)(继)(续)(帮)(着)(干)(娘)(把)(说)(媒)(的)(事)(做)(下)(去)(,我)(俩)(就)(是)(她)(的)(接)(班)(人)(。”
      经)(过)(这)(么)(多)(年)(了)(,足)(有)(几)(百)(人)(来)(高)(丽)(华)(家)(相)(亲)(,至)(少)(有)(40多)(对)(年)(轻)(人)(结)(为)(伉)(俪)(,步)(入)(了)(婚)(姻)(殿)(堂)(。高)(丽)(华)(这)(位)(“红)(娘)(”的)(美)(名)(也)(传)(遍)(了)(整)(个)(平)(朔)(矿)(区)(。
      左)(邻)(右)(舍)(都)(知)(道)(她)(是)(个)(热)(心)(肠)(,有)(家)(庭)(不)(和)(拌)(嘴)(的)(,也)(要)(找)(她)(来)(“评)(评)(理)(”。现)(在)(,六)(区)(周)(围)(20多)(栋)(楼)(居)(民)(的)(快)(递)(邮)(件)(由)(她)(义)(务)(负)(责)(收)(发)(,很)(多)(职)(工)(过)(意)(不)(去)(,给)(她)(送)(这)(买)(那)(,都)(被)(她)(婉)(言)(拒)(绝)(了)(。高)(丽)(华)(说)(:“你)(们)(上)(班)(忙)(,我)(在)(家)(也)(没)(啥)(事)(,能)(为)(大)(家)(做)(点)(事)(,我)(高)(兴)(!”
      1989年)(10月)(高)(丽)(华)(退)(休)(后)(,由)(于)(工)(作)(突)(出)(,又)(被)(返)(聘)(到)(平)(朔)(社)(区)(管)(委)(会)(,她)(多)(次)(被)(平)(朔)(公)(司)(授)(予)(“五)(好)(婆)(婆)(”“先)(进)(生)(产)(者)(”“社)(区)(模)(范)(楼)(长)(”等)(光)(荣)(称)(号)(。
      高)(丽)(华)(说)(,她)(最)(大)(的)(愿)(望)(,就)(是)(在)(有)(生)(之)(年)(多)(为)(年)(轻)(人)(做)(一)(些)(好)(事)(,把)(好)(事)(做)(到)(底)(。
      本)(报)(记)(者)( 王)(晋)(飞)( 通)(讯)(员)( 王)(彪)(
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